Friday, August 30, 2013

I’ve Been Replaced

There is a silver lining to having Derek and Evan gone all day.  I get to spend a lot more quality time with Adam and Amelia.  I think Adam benefits from it the most, and he really likes having most of my attention.

This morning while Amelia was taking a nap, I decided to sit down and practice  reading with Adam.  This is something I don’t do often enough, but reading is a big love in our family, so I try to fit it in when I can.  Adam is just starting to get to the point where he can sound out 3 letter words.  He read “SAT,” “BAT,” and “HAT,” then I told him if he could read the next one he would win the game and we would be done.  He easily read “FAT.”  Feeling proud, I tickled him and said, “Who taught you to read, anyway?”

Adam, also feeling proud, smiled and said, “The girl…..” then paused.  I smugly thought, “The girl sitting next to you on the couch right now.”  Then Adam finished.  “The girl on Daddy’s ipad.”

Curse that ipad for always getting all the credit!

Adam Technology

Wednesday, August 28, 2013

One Last Fling

As we got closer to school starting, I had what you might call an end-of-summer crisis.  I suddenly decided that we hadn’t had near enough fun this summer and we were approaching the day when I wouldn’t get to see my two oldest boys EVER because they spend so long at school.  So I did what any panicked mother would do and planned a vacation.

The plan was to head off to the Black Hills of South Dakota.  We invited Brian and Andrea and their kids along, and despite their crazy life right now, they agreed to join us.

No that I’m living the reality of never seeing my school kids, I’m going to write out the details and post all the pictures and relive the trip all over again.  Whose idea was it to start school in August, anyway?  Don’t they know that summer officially goes until almost the end of September?  We should still be home in our pajamas playing for at least a few more weeks!

Anyway, here is the trip recap:

Day 1:
We started the day of by being the first to arrive at the mandatory school registration/meet-the-teacher day.  The boys met their teachers, and when we found out there was an hour wait in the registration line, we decided we had done our mandatory duty to come and figured we could finish registering some other time.  We hopped in the car and headed off to South Dakota!

Our first stop was the Badlands.  Our boys thought this meant that as soon as we had entered the Badlands National Park, they could be as bad as they wanted to.  Luckily, they were too awestruck by the scenery to cause too much trouble.  After all, who feels like being bad when they look out the window and see this cute little guy standing there?

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The view from the nicely paved path is beautiful.

Derek and Evan BadlandsGlenn and Amelia Badlands

But, unlike most National Parks where you have to stay on the designated trails, at the Badlands people are free to roam.  The National Park Police are probably not too worried that people will go very far, since the landscape is full of dangers like sharp drop-offs, giant cliffs, prairie dogs who have the bubonic plague, and other perilous pitfalls.

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They’ve obviously never met the Ropers.  Despite all those dangers and against our better judgment, we somehow decided to go on a family hike through the badlands.  It was terrifying (since our boys have no fear), but a lot of fun.  It was kind of like hiking around on the surface of Mars, except probably more dangerous.  Luckily Adam falling and scraping his face was the worst problem we had.Derek and Evan Badlands 2Badlands 2Evan BadlandsFamily ShadowsBadlands 1Derek BadlandsGlenn and Amelia Badlands 2Adam BadlandsGlenn and Amelia Badlands 3Family at the Badlands 2

Pretty soon the sun began to set.  We decided it was time to head to Circle View Ranch where we were staying for the night.  Goodbye Badlands!

Day 2:
We decided to stay at Circle View Ranch because there aren’t many places to stay in The-Middle-of-Nowhere, South Dakota and I read good things online about this place.  We woke up bright and early at The Ranch to a delicious home cooked breakfast of scrambled eggs (fresh from the chickens out roaming in the yard), homemade biscuits and gravy, berry smoothies, sausage, and even fresh-made blackberry butter for those who didn’t want gravy on their biscuits.  It was so good!

The land was covered in fog, but that didn’t stop our boys from having fun wandering around and playing with the animals. 

Derek and Amelia Burro

Derek in particular seemed to think he had died and gone to Heaven.Derek Burro 3Derek Burro 4Derek Burro 2Derek Burro 1

After all, it isn’t every day that you get to hold a baby frizzle chicken while sitting on a burro!

Derek Frizzle

After being chased by a friendly goat, Evan felt a little bit less like he was in Heaven and didn’t want to have anything to do with any of the animals.  He is so funny.Evan Burro

As sad as we were to leave the peaceful ranch, we finally managed to lure Derek off the burro long enough to force him into the car, and we headed off to Wind Cave National Park.

This is where we met up with Brian and Andrea’s family.  We were so happy to see them!Derek and Jaci

  After a brief picnic lunch, we headed into the cave where we went down 300 stairs (the equivalent of a 20 story building) to view part of one of the longest caves in the world.  Did I mention that Andrea is 8 months pregnant?  She is not a wimp, that’s for sure!Cave

From there we headed off to the main attraction, the one and only Mount Rushmore.  To be a true American, I think it is some sort of requirement to see Mt. Rushmore at least once in your life.  We took care of that obligation for ourselves and our kids all in one shot (although Glenn is an American twice-over since he went when he was growing up).

The kids were obviously thrilled.Mount Rushmore Family

I think they were more interested in wandering freely with their cousins than appreciating the American masterpiece, but at least they’ve seen it, right?  And I can’t complain too much when there is bonding like this going on…CousinsAfton Adam

We hiked the long and much-more-strenuous-than-we-expected trail (did I mention that Andrea is 8 months pregnant?) then stayed for the evening lighting ceremony.  I somehow had it in my head that it was going to be a laser light show, so I had the kids all hyped up.  It was mostly just a ranger program and at the end they turned the lights on so we could see the faces.  I think the kids (and I) were all a little disappointed, but still.  We have seen Mount Rushmore!!!  And we were there with some of our favorite people, so that made it even better!The Group

We went back to the Rocket Motel and fell wearily into our beds.

Day 3:
This day was planned to be slightly less strenuous.  We woke up early so we could head off to the Wildlife Loop at Custer National Park while there were still bunches of wildlife hanging around.  We wanted to catch them before the crowds got there.  Once again I got the kids (and myself) all hyped up about the cool wildlife we were going to see.  After all, they don’t call it the “Wildlife Loop” for nothing, right?  And I had read many assurances online that there were tons of wildlife to be seen.

We drove and drove and drove along the loop, and saw nothing other than a few prairie dogs (who probably have the plague) and maybe one deer.  Evan claimed that he saw some bushes moving once, so that could have been something exciting.  Other than the beautiful surroundings, the landscape was pretty bare.  After the laser light show disappointment the night before, my reputation was starting to sink.  The kids were looking at me with sad faces and asking where the wildlife was.  Just when we had driven almost the whole loop and it seemed that there was no hope, we came across a herd of over 1,000 bison.

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I’m not sure if it made up for the hour of driving with not an animal in sight, but the kids were at least excited that they could finally break out their binoculars.

After getting our fill of bison-watching, we left the Wildlife Loop behind and took the Needles Highway headed toward Deadwood, SD.  The highway is named because of some narrow rock tunnels you drive through on the way.

We briefly stopped to trade kids, and all the cousins immediately took off hiking through the rocks. Needles Highway Hiking

It took us awhile, but we managed the get that unruly group rounded up and back into the cars.  Well, 2 kids in our car, 5 kids in Brian and Andrea’s car.  The cousins were gathered together in the Ludwig-mobile to watch a family favorite, “Calamity Jane.”  After all, we were on our way to Deadwood- Calamity’s old stomping grounds!

Once there, we realized that maybe not every family grew up with quite as much love for Calamity as we did.  Instead of streets full of children pretending to be Doris Day and Howard Keel singing our old family favorites, there was mostly just a bunch of saloons.  Oh well, I guess Deadwood is still a bit of a rough town even all these years later.Deadwood

We did get to watch a staged gunfight in the middle of the street, which made the trip a little more authentic feeling.  We also went and paid 50 cents per person to go see the graves of Calamity Jane and Wild Bill Hickok.

Calamity jane Grave 

After saying goodbye to Calamity and Wild Bill, it was time for us to say goodbye to each other as well.  Brian and Andrea headed back to Billings, and we headed home into the sunset to face the start of school (but at least we had a fun vacation under our belt).Wyoming Sunset 2Wyoming Sunset

It was a fun whirlwind of a trip!

Thursday, August 22, 2013

First (and Second) Day of School

Well, as much as I fought with summer to stick around a little longer (or forever, for that matter), I lost the battle and the first day of school arrived at last. 

Here are my sweet boys dreaming their last dreams of summer before waking up yesterday to an alarm clock, backpacks, lunchboxes, homework, and after-school sports.  I think they slept better than I did!Night Before

The morning dawned bright and the weather was good.  Derek and Evan were up early and ready for their first day of school! 

Derek is in third grade and his teacher is Mrs. Pitrone.  It is really unbelievable that Derek is in THIRD GRADE!  That is the grade I taught when I was pregnant with Derek.  I don’t think I ever thought he would actually grow up to be the same age as my students at the time.  Now here he is- handsome and sweet, smart and funny.  By far the best third grader around (although I may be biased)!Derek First Day

Evan is in first grade and his teacher is Mrs. Carpenter.  She was Derek’s teacher in first grade, and it is comforting to have a teacher we know.  Mrs. Carpenter is warm and kind- perfect for our nervous little first grader!  It kind of killed me a little bit (okay, a lot) to send Evan off to school ALL DAY!  I sure missed him at home!  It doesn’t get any cuter than that 6-year-old first day of school smile!Evan First Day

Slowly but surely, our school boys are growing up.First Day Boys

The highlight of the first day of school was, of course, their new school shoes.  They were so excited about these that they insisted I take a picture.  They kept talking about the speed factor and the reflective properties on the shoes.  I’m just glad they found some that fit.  I can’t believe I have to buy size 3 1/2 shoes for Derek!!New Shoes Boys

I offered to walk the boys in to their classrooms, but alas, they said they were fine to just be dropped off.  Derek even had the nerve to say I could walk him in as long as I didn’t go all the way to his classroom.  Is it possible that he is embarrassed for me to walk him to class?  It should be against the law for kids to grow up this fast!

Anyway, off they went without their mother holding their hands…Heading In

The highlight of the day for the boys may have been sporting their new school shoes, but the highlight of the day for me was seeing these cute faces come back out the school doors at 3:30 in the afternoon…

Derek Coming HomeEvan Coming Home

Sorry about the blurry pictures.  I was too busy being excited to see the boys to bother focusing the camera!

I sure love these boys!  Life is pretty quiet around the Roper house without them all day.  Today was just the second day of school, but I took the younger kids in to volunteer to help with a last minute project and I have to admit that I snuck around and found both of my cute boys!  Evan was lining up in the hallway with his class (that was a pure-luck sighting) and got a quick hug from his mom, and Derek didn’t even seem the least bit embarrassed when Adam, Amelia, and I showed up in the lunchroom!  Maybe he isn’t too grown up, after all.

I even got extra lucky and happened to spot Derek playing tag with friends on the playground when I pulled up to pick them up from school today (in this crummy iphone picture Derek is escaping down the slide).  Derek slide

Here goes another school year- so far, so good.  I hope we can make it a great one!